I have a foible that I am resigned to live with, and need to confess. I know without checking that I am not the only one afflicted with this defect. I regularly attend gatherings of a kind of loosely but effectively organized support group/asylum/spiritual retreat, where many of the attendees share this shortcoming. In fact, the general idea behind the group is to help each other learn to live with such character flaws, and to rise above them. Everyone has heard the adage about pulling oneself up by one's bootstraps, and the metaphor kinda applies, in more of a group sense. (Except that this goal is attainable, unlike the physical act the saying refers to, which is, if you stop and think about it, physically impossible.)
Enough prologue, already. (If you haven't figured it out already, I like my syntax slightly tortured, and drawn out. Why say in three words what you can inflate to forty-two? I mean, it's not like I'm being paid to be brief. Come to think of it, I'm not being paid at all, so I'll write what I jolly well like. How's that for stretching a point?) No, gross verbosity is not the problem to which I refer. It is, rather, my tendency to find, without any effort at all, the worst possible outcome to whatever life situation I find myself in. I don't tend to dwell on these invented outcomes, but their shadows constantly haunt my outlook. Despite the fact that I act like a confidently positive person, I keep in my secret heart the expectation that I will be out of money, friendless, living under a bridge and waiting for an unlabeled terminal illness to claim me. Plus I'm running through molasses and can't find where I parked my car.
When I find myself in the grip of this monster, about the only thing I have to resort to is this little bit of logic: What's the worst thing that could happen to me? Death? If and when that happens, I'll have nothing further to worry about, right? I'll either be facing sublime nothingness (which I sought with a vengeance during past years of hedonistic abandon), or I'll transmogrify to that "better place" that no one yet has a clue about. In the meantime, I practice acting "as if". See earlier posts for additional details on this mystical procedure, which boils down to this: if I act "as if" I am a happy person, and continue this odd behavior on a regular basis, sooner or later I will actually be a happy person. Hence, if I act as if I am fearless and have faith that all will be okay......, well, I'd imagine you can take it from here. Anyway, take my word for it, this is like magic. And, like prestidigitation, the results are quite unbelievable.
I love wood, and am an enthusiast of things made from it. I found this little compendium of wooden things on the blog/website dezeen. (Do look further into the burnt-log stools . . . . very clever.)

(if you too are a wood freak, and find this interesting, you should check out my sister and bro-in-law's website)